My mum was in and out of this hospital for years, but I will never forget the last time she was here, as shortly afterwards she took her own life.
I lost my mum because the hospital refused to give her the help she desperately needed. She was admitted at the end of February, after a severe episode; she was schizophrenic and clearly couldn’t look after herself. Her house was a complete shambles, she didn’t make sense when she was talking, suffered from paranoid delusions.
Before I get any further into this, I would just like to say that some of the nurses are brilliant and amazing here and have been really good and helpful but sadly not everyone is.
Anyway, my mum was supposed to be kept in the hospital for 6 months; this was something that had been agreed at a meeting and with her doctor (who even stated that she was a danger to herself) but then on April the 5th, they altered this decision and let her go home early, stating that she was ok to leave, after just two months...she wasn’t.
I phoned the hospital as soon as I found out and begged them not to let her out, as she wasn’t ready and was still a danger to herself. You wouldn't have to be a nurse or doctor to see that she was still very unwell and suffering from paranoid delusions. She was saying scary stuff and hadn’t been taking her medication in the hospital.
The hospital insisted that she was fine to be released, so there wasn’t much else I could do except accept this decision. So she came out and tried to get settled back into her life, but her mental health unfortunately continued to deteriorate.
One month and 13 days later, she ended her life.
This could have been prevented if she had been kept in the hospital for the full agreed six months period, or had at least had some care at home...but no care plan had been put into action, and she was left to fend for herself.
The hospital ignored my pleas for help when it was clear that my mum wasn’t ready to go home and now my family and I have to deal with the loss of a very loved family member.
I wanted to post a review months ago, when it happened, but I thought I would wait until I was ready.
I’m absolutely disgusted with this hospital